The milk and sugar station at Starbucks. Too much pressure to move quickly
Smalltalk in the laundry room of my building
Elevator chitchat
Bed & Breakfasts. Would rather sleep on a tree branch
Halloween
French people
Standing ovations
Watching television when a new friend comes over. I get nervous and talk through the whole show.
Choosing a color at nail salon / climbing out of the pedicure chair
Portable toilets
Pushing through a busy restaurant to get to the hostess stand
Middle-aged men in distressed denim
The last piece of spicy tuna roll when I’m out with someone I don’t know that well
People on crutches
Being the only customer in a small store
Not having any chocolate in my apartment
Attractive guys in Nantucket reds
When it’s just me and the bathroom attendant
Middle school kids on field trips (gives me flashbacks)
Aisle seats on airplanes. Spend the entire flight anticipating when middle and window will need to get up to pee
Exiting a cab when there is an audience
Meeting my mother Bernice’s friends. Do I kiss them on the cheek or shake hands?
Cosmetics counters
Sauvignon blanc (the prononciation)
Construction workers. I don’t want them to notice me, but I also want them to notice me
Really emaciated girls sprinting on the treadmill
Clapping along to the music
Any celebrity interview conducted by Billy Bush
When I’m on a date and the check comes
Goodbye speeches in the conference room at work
Photo booths
Small parties
Big parties
Passed hors d’ oeuvres:
1) I have not mastered standing and eating
2) Fear of server judging me for taking another pig-in-a-blanket
3) There is that one popular tray that everyone clamors around, and it’s an awkward game of, “who is gonna go first?” Then, we all reach in at the same time and bump hands.
Audience participation
Karaoke
Responsive reading